Hi there,
Firstly, I am sorry you are going through this. When you feel like someone is or potentially taking advantage of you- set up a boundary for yourself. For me, my memoy is bad currently on this medication (vimpat). So I try to write in my journal, keep notes in my phone, screenshot things, or I would have a full dialogue revisiting the conversation (if I missed anything). You can make it work to your advantage.
Here are some article to help
https://epilepsydisease.com/nocturnal-seizures
https://epilepsydisease.com/living/seizure-in-sleep
Derra Howard
Epilepsy Team Member